• CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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    15 hours ago

    Wait, where are you? I thought I recognised you from .ca, but it sounds like you might be thinking of the US system where they can pay nothing except tips. In my province you earn at least minimum wage as a waiter, and tips.

    If I were to just straight up refuse to eat from restaurants under any circumstance, I’d be heavily incurring those intangible costs I mentioned, because it’s an expected social thing. That being said, I might consider it if I was in the US, but I’m not.

    Also, tips have expanded well beyond servers, but that’s kind of beside the point.

    • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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      7 hours ago

      Well you thought wrong. I was born and raised in the U.S. and lived there until about two weeks ago when we fled.

      And in my 47 years in America, I was never in a situation where I couldn’t say, “no thanks” if someone invited me to a restaurant. And who invites you to restaurants and makes you pay?