• SinAdjetivos@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    a case of gender expression, not gender identity.

    When those don’t align that’s usually referred to as dysphoria/dysmorphia. That’s what the fursuits are for, just like HRT, tattoos, piercings, clothing, etc.

    I just want it to be recognized for what it is.

    What it is, or what you perceive it to be? I don’t disagree that fetish is a part of it, but that’s true of any gender/sexuality etc. It’s like flattening down all homosexuality to leather daddies.

    Then what are heterosexuality and homosexuality defined by?

    Pornographic material: Pornhub has entirely separate sites for “straight” and “gay”. Would adding a “furry” site really feel all that strange or out of place?

    sex toys, roleplay scenarios: I don’t think that’s as strongly correlated as you’re suggesting. Pony/pet play is big in the BDSM community and bad dragon toys were far from exclusively for furries. Unless you have something else in mind I’m unaware of?

    Shared hobby: What exactly is the hobby all furries share?

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      2 months ago

      fursuits are for, just like HRT

      I think this vastly disregards the lifelong impacts of gender dysmorphia and is frankly kind of flippant.

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            2 months ago

            That’s called masking, in the context of transfolk also known as boy/girl moding.

            Nobody “takes their identity off”, almost everybody masks to some degree. It’s never “convenient” but it is sometimes less harmful than the alternative.