As kids, yes. And women are told to have a yearly pelvic exam. My insurance covers well exams 100% but I have been unable to schedule one since 2021. Also if I ask any questions outside of what is deemed wellness (I asked about having skin tags removed and was charged for the visit, they did not remove any, I only asked about it happening).
I live in a small town so health care is very limited unless I drive to the city.
My grandfather was a Quaker too, and my grandmother was not as well. She was Amish but grew up kind of outside the Amish community, she spoke only Pennsylvania German into her teens when she learned English.
Much like your dad, mine could use some beatings.