I hate the word for the reasons you’ve said, but I know a lot of black Americans in Portugal that refer to themselves as expats.

Feels to me that the line is drawn along economic privilege lines rather than simply race.

Or it’s the only meal they’ve had out in a month and it coincided with a sleep regression or something.

I have friends without kids tell me how they would parent and what they don’t think is “good parenting” all the time. They have no clue…