minus-squareGreenMartian@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoComic Strips@lemmy.world•Pearls Before Swine 2025-09-14linkfedilinkarrow-up0·21 hours agoI’d even argue that people should either start with, or get to 4 before committing to any long term relationship. Change in the other person will come, but it’s not up to you. You can only control how you want yourself to change. linkfedilink
minus-squareGreenMartian@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Koalified shitposterlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 days agoWhy aren’t killer whales whales? Because they’re dolphins. You gonna come at me too? linkfedilink
I’d even argue that people should either start with, or get to 4 before committing to any long term relationship.
Change in the other person will come, but it’s not up to you. You can only control how you want yourself to change.